If You Submit to the Hurt, You Will Feel the Hurt
Jesus said, "When [a person] is hurting you, think of the time you stood before Me and then you will be happy. "No one can hurt you if you do not want them to hurt you. You have a free will. If you submit to the hurt, you will feel the hurt. If you submit to Me, you will not feel the hurt. You will be joyful. I am trying to help you understand more about suffering."